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Ungaita sei kana warambwa?

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Offline Chipangamazano

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Ungaita sei kana warambwa?
« on: April 02, 2015, 04:58:04 PM »
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Hie Chipangamazano,

Ndakambodanana nevakomana vanenge 7 ndisati ndawana Wellington. Rudo rwakandipa Welly nderiya randisati ndamboona muupenyu hwangu, kubvira kuna baba vangu kusvikira kuvakomana vese vandaka danana nawo. Welly aindipa rudo rwechokwadi uye takadanana kwe9 months.
Zvinhu zvanga zviri bho during the 1st 6months but ndakazotanga kutya kutorerwa Welly wangu coz ndaimuka uye kusiyana nevamwe vakomana, Welly was committed and faithful. He is a husband and father material. Nevertheless, ndakatanga kushusha after 6months, ndichimuramba, todzokererana zvakare; ndomuramba futi. It was tough for him but he held on to me. But I kept on testing and seeking more attention until ndazorambwa.

It wasn't my intention... I want him back but I don't knw how? He's not even answering my calls. What should I do?

-Depressed.

Dear Depressed,

I hear you, I hear you my dear. First of all, you made a terrible mistake of testing your man after 9months in a relationship. Usually, relationships last between 3-5 months and within that period that's when you could have tested him. Anyway, let's not cry over spilled milk. So let me try help:

From my experience with men, women and relationships; if this kind of situation happens (which is your bf breaking up cause he's fed up with you always pushing the buttons), your man will be seriously thinking about you although he won't show it. "But I called and he didn't pick up!"-Well, that was then my dear; two days later he will be hemming and hawing over why he broke up with you (assuming he had a good time with you). Even if you were a pain in the a**, still; the emotional draw back is always there and he can feel it more than you do.
Here is what you can do:
1. text him "goodnight" and "goodmorning" every end and start of the day. Nothing else should be said. If he replies, go on with a "harmless" conversation. If he doesn't reply, dont worry. Just doing this will keep you in the mind of your man and it will reduce the risk of losing him to Mai Muponesi.

2. After at least 3days of doing step one. Call and invite him to a movie/park/anything you used to enjoy together the next weekend. If he says he's busy, keep postponing until he gives in (trust me, men are not that strong).

3. Provided step two works or doesn't, tell him you're sorry for being a pain, tell him your aims with him and why you don't wanna lose him. Pour your heart Baby!

4. After completing all the steps, it's up to your man. You did what you can do and if he loves you; he will take you back depending on how big you've screwed up.

Stay in touch.
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Re: Ungaita sei kana warambwa?
« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2015, 03:34:43 PM »
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Re: Ungaita sei kana warambwa?
« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2015, 03:36:16 PM »
Imi muchinyanyawo kuedza varume. I don't think its right to test a man; C'mon, u brought this on urself.

 



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